I have talked to several Brides, including one recently from Hoover, Alabama, about this emotional topic. The Bride wanted to have her gown cleaned after her wedding. However, she didn't want to place it in a wedding dress preservation chest. She wanted her wedding dress to last for many years in case she has a daughter one day who might want to wear her wedding dress. But she was adamant that she be able to hold and even try on her wedding dress (after the wedding) in order to re-live the memories of her wedding day.
The emotion associated with the dress and the thought that a Bride cannot hold her dress after preserving it make some Brides decide to delay proper care for the dress for several years.
Our response to this issue is different from some other wedding gown cleaners. We say you can hold...even try on...the wedding dress after it is cleaned. But you need to be careful. And you need to know how to re-package the dress so that permanent creases do not form.
If you have already had your dress cleaned and preserved by another wedding gown cleaner...one other than Champion...check with them about their guarantee. Will your handling of the gown void any guarantee they may have offered when you had your wedding gown cleaned? You don't want to lose the security the wedding gown specialist might provide.
If you must handle your wedding dress after it is cleaned and preserved, remember this important point: Museum standards for preserving vintage garments includes limiting the handling of the garment.
So keep that in mind...less is better!
But you can handle your gown without damaging it. Here are a few suggestions:
• Wash your hands and wear cotton gloves when handling a clean gown (we'll provide you with a pair)
• Don't handle it excessively (remember, less is better)
• Be aware of makeup...don't hold it too close
• Be wary of children and dirty hands
- Learn how to re-package the dress in the preservation chest (we'll show you)
If anyone wears the gown outside you'll likely need to get it cleaned again.
When you clean, preserve and store your gown properly, it will last for generations. But you don't have to put it away and never be able to re-live the wedding memories with your dress...at least not when Champion Wedding Gown Specialist handles your gown cleaning and preservation.
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Contrary to common belief, the seal on a wedding dress preservation chest does not protect the dress from air. A dress that is vacuum sealed is likely to be ruined after just a few years. In fact, for a wedding dress to be successfully preserved over many years, air must circulate around and through the gown.
So why is a wedding dress preservation chest sealed?
The main reason is to keep pests away from your gown. You certainly don't want moths getting to your wedding dress, depositing eggs and causing damage to your wedding dress as the larvae hatch. Sealing the wedding chest helps.
But a properly cleaned and preserved wedding dress does not have to be sealed in order to last for generations. Just make sure the preservation chest is protected from pests...the six and eight-legged versions (i.e., insects) and the two and four legged versions (i.e., kids and pets).
Yes, the seal can also help keep out kids and pets so don't forget about that advantage of sealing the chest. But the preservation chest does not have to be sealed if you can protect it by storing it away from the reach of the kids and pets and away from insects.
But Happens If You Break The Seal?
While WE don't void our guarantee because the wedding dress preservation chest is opened, some other wedding gown cleaners will claim their guarantee is voided if seal is broken...so be sure to check first. If your wedding dress was cleaned and preserved by a member of the Association of Wedding Gown Specialists (including us!), a broken seal does not void anything. Make sure your wedding dress preservation chest carries the AWGS seal.
Read more about our guarantees by following this link.
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Of course you will do everything in your power to avoid spilling red wine on your gorgeous wedding gown during the wedding reception. But what can you do to protect your wedding dress before your wedding day?
Here are my suggestions for protecting your wedding gown before the wedding...so your wedding day will be perfect.
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Before your wedding, store your wedding gown where it will be protected from kids, pets, heat and moisture. There are many stories out there about all four of these culprits causing pre-wedding damage to a wedding dress. Keep it in a protective covering before the wedding but remember to check it for wrinkles before the wedding so you can get it steamed pr pressed if needed. Often the wrinkles will fall out on their own.
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When you unpack your gown, be sure to unpack it in a clean, uncluttered area away from food, children and pets. Be sure your hands are clean and dry and remove all jewelry when handling your bridal gown.
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Remember to keep all labels and anything that came with the dress that covers care for the dress and fabrics used in the wedding dress. You'll need them later. They'll help your wedding gown specialist clean your wedding dress. Please don't remove the care labels from your wedding dress. If you don't have the labels, don't fret. An experienced wedding gown specialist can determine the fabric and proper treatment in most cases...but it still helps to have the labels.
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Inspect your dress after your pictures for soil, especially on the hem lines on a floor-length wedding gown and around the collar from makeup. Have the gown cleaned if necessary.
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Before your wedding, locate a qualified Wedding Gown Specialist and discuss your wedding gown cleaning and preservation. Be comfortable with the people who will be cleaning and preserving your wedding gown. The best way to get that feeling of confidence is face-to-face discussion of the care for your wedding gown. Don't do it over the phone. Don't just take it to your local dry cleaner. Take it to a Wedding Gown Specialist...someone who is qualified and experienced in wedding gown cleaning and preservation...someone who will clean the gown himself...not ship it to some distant, wedding gown mill. Arrange to see your wedding dress before it is placed in the preservation chest. Take a look at the problem areas...the grass or wine stains. Make sure it is your dress being packaged. That's the advantage of using a local wedding gown specialist. That's why I'm in the wedding dress preservation business in Birmingham, Alabama.
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My final suggestion is to arrange for someone (your Mom, your Mother-in-Law, your Maid of Honor, your brother...anyone) to take your gown to your selected wedding gown specialist immediately after your wedding. The sooner the expert receives your gown, the better are the chances that any problems can be corrected. Have your wedding dress preservation done as soon as possible...because there are risks of leaving it hangling in your closet (remember the kids, pets, heat and moisture).
If you have any other ideas for wedding dress care before the wedding, please let me and the other readers of my blog know by responding to this post.
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A Bride from Vestavia Hills, Alabama recently asked me why she should keep her wedding dress. That's a good question with more than one answer. But it all boils down to CHOICES. I told her to ask her Mom because I suspect her Mom would know why and she'd probably tell her the same thing I would tell her.
Your Wedding Memories
First, keep your wedding dress because you can re-live the ceremony. The hours of planning, the fun, the engagement, the walk down the aisle, the flowers, the people, the dance, the challenges of planning for perhaps the biggest day of your life... will come back to you just by holding your wedding dress. The memories will be stronger when holding your wedding dress. If you dry clean and preserve your wedding dress, you will then have many choices you can make down thge road.
Your Daughter
One choice you'll have is to give your wedding dress for your daughter...or perhaps for your daughter-in-law...to wear at her wedding. This is the the reason I hear most from Brides about why they decide to clean and preserve their wedding dress. And maybe she WILL want to wear wear your wedding dress at her wedding...but maybe she won't. Styles change. Many Brides have a desire to make their own wedding image.
Why else should a Bride keep her wedding dress? If the style of your wedding gown is no longer in favor 20-plus years from now (note to Brides: this is a good reason to select a classic style wedding dress...they never go out of style) why else should a Bride want to keep her dress?
Get Creative
Here are some other things you can do with your wedding dress:
- If you don't expect your daughter or daughter-in-law to wear your dress one day, you can use the dress to make a Baptismal gown or a flower girl dress. Here's a link to ideas about how to do this. But you need to clean and preserve your wedding dress or this choice will, most likely, not be available.
- Other creative ideas of things to make with your wedding dress...if you decide not to keep it (in its original form) include: ring bearer pillow, flower girl basket, communion dress, pillow case, baby bonnet, sachets, lingerie, wrap or shawl...even a Christmas tree skirt.
- You can always sell your dress through a consignment shop or even give it to a family member. But be sure to get it dry cleaned as soon after the wedding as possible. Second hand wedding dresses are a great wedding dress solution for a lot of Brides today.
- If you think you might want to sell your dress but you aren't sure, wait a few years before deciding for sure. Just be sure to get your wedding dress dry cleaned and preserved so you have the choice.
Recycle
Don't let your wedding gown rot in you closet, uncleaned, waiting to decide what to do with it. There are plenty of choices you can make about your dress after your wedding. But all the choices start with cleaning your wedding dress. Unless you plan to sell your gown, you should also have it preserved. You will keep it in better condition so you will have choices...because it's all about choices.
By the way, reusing (by your daughter) or recycling your wedding dress (as a second hand wedding dress at a consignment shop, or a Baptismal gown for your family) is an environmentally sound way to handle your wedding dress. Letting it rot in your closet is such a waste.
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With the huge majority of weddings being planned today on the Internet, here's a short list of great sites that can help you with the daunting task of planning and pulling off such a major life event...and creating your wedding memories. Whether you plan to have 50 or 500 guests, everyone can benefit from the insight of others...and these sites will give you just that. And they're all free! Take a look if you haven't already been to these useful resources
The Knot has a ton of great resources. It's an overflowing source of guides, articles, and ideas. If you're looking for any little wedding tidbit, from wedding dresses to brides maids gifts, it can be found on The Knot. However, what separates The Knot from every other wedding website on the Internet is their forum. They have a very active forum on all things relating to weddings. From budget proportions and numbers, to making your own centerpieces, everything about weddings is discussed down to the smallest detail in those forums...and yes, even wedding gown cleaning and preservation. This is great for a bride who has an idea and wants to bounce it off others before implementing it at her wedding. The people on the forums are so obsessed with weddings. They may be getting married themselves or they may be experienced wedding planners. They are excited to jump in and help others out with their wedding planning.
The Wedding Details site has checklists, checklists and even more checklists. Every bride has literally a million little things to do. Being organized is the key to not going crazy. They have a time line for months in advanced, for the final month, and for the wedding day itself. You can print out all of their checklists and time lines for free and make a simple wedding planning binder. Check off each item as you go and know that you are on track. You will know that you are not letting anything slip through the cracks with this level of organization. This will keep you organized from the day you are proposed to until you are off on your honeymoon.
I'd add just one item to the checklists here. Be sure to remember to take your wedding dress in to a certified wedding gown specialist for a wedding dress cleaning and preservation very soon after your wedding!
Martha Stewart Weddings
You can't go wrong with Martha Stewart. You can count on the fact that everything on that website is classy and gorgeous. Sometimes we think of Martha Stewart's style as too expensive and rich, but it is actually ideal for those on a tight budget. The website is full of do it yourself ideas that can be done on even a shoestring budget. Many of the do it yourself ideas are broken down step by step, so they are ideal even for those who do not consider themselves particularly crafty. They also have a "Real Weddings" section with photos of many couples' wedding. This section is a great source of ideas for a creative bride to implement at her custom wedding. You can't be accused of having a tacky wedding if Martha Stewart is your guide.
Be sure to see our listing on this site. Look for wedding gown preservation in Birmingham Alabama.
Other Sites
There are tons of other sites. And doubtless you have visited many of them. But don't forget about the wedding blogs, including wedding care blogs like this one. There's plenty of help out there...so go on and create your wedding memories.
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I just received an update from Sally Lowrenson Conant of the Association of Wedding Gown Specialists on some trends for wedding gowns coming out of the New York Bridal Market 2010. It seems flowers are quite the trend...flowers on everything. There are giant flat ones appliquéd to gowns. There are masses of three-dimensional ones sewn all over the the wedding gown. There are even veils with three-dimensional flowers.
There seems to be fewer pearls but lots of "diamonds" with flashes of color such as large (flowered, of course) cumber buns on a relatively plain gown. Designers are still using lots of lace. And tulle is back - in giant ball gowns with huge trains.
Here are some links to other wedding gown web sites where you can see for yourself -
Emerald Couturiers
Monique-Lhuillier-Spring-2010
Martha Stewart Weddings
All of these trends make for interesting challenges for wedding gown specialists in handling your wedding gown cleaning and preservation. But just how wedding gown cleaning techniques are affected will depend on the fabric, dyes and methods of attaching the flowers. Make sure your wedding gown is cleaned and preserved by someone qualified and experienced in wedding gown cleaning. Check with us for quality wedding gown cleaning in Birmingham, Alabama.
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A bride dreams of her wedding day for years. She imagines it will be perfect. But it seems the old adage, "What can go wrong, will go wrong," is especially true at weddings. Whenever you have a beautiful, pristine bridal gown, invariably it seems to be a pure canvass just waiting for a wedding dress disaster. As a wedding gown specialist in Birmingham, Alabama providing wedding gown cleaning and preservation, I hear a lot stories. Let me know your wedding disaster story to share with our readers.
A recently-married bride from Hoover, Alabama told me about her experience. Like a lot of brides, she dreamt about the wedding dress she wanted for years before her wedding. It just had to be a beautiful, southern belle ball gown, complete with wide-brimmed hat and tulle veil. So that is what she finally found. It was truly the dress of her dreams and it was perfect in every way.
Her wedding day arrived and her gorgeous wedding dress fit perfectly. She was a vision of white. Everything was perfect - from the wonderful spring weather all the way to the bridal march that led her down the aisle. But that's when things began to change.
At the altar she handed her bouquet off to her maid-of-honor and stepped onto the platform to simultaneously light the single candle with her soon-to-be-husband. Wedding dresses are never easy to maneuver in, and hers was no exception. As the couple bent to touch the tips of their candles, she caught her heel on the gown's hem, causing her to lurch forward. She grabbed for the table in front of her to steady herself and watched two seed pearl buttons pop off the sleeve of her dress, landing on the floor in front of her.
Not thinking clearly (who really does right at this point in the ceremony?), she bent to pick them up and the edge of her veil came in contact with the candle flame. Her groom saw the panic in her eyes as a black hole widened on her veil. He quickly snuffed the fire with his fingers, but not before a silver dollar size black edged hole bloomed in the yards of white tulle.
Thankfully the rest of the ceremony went without a hitch. After the "I Do's" she was able to nab a pair of scissors and cut the black hole out of the veil and managed to hide the ragged edge before the reception.
A couple of weeks after the ceremony, she contacted us about her wedding gown preservation. We discussed her wedding dess and learned about the veil. We sewed the pearl buttons back on and we provided her wedding gown cleaning and preservation. We could have made the appropriate wedding gown alterations to the tulle veil but the bride wanted to keep that memory just like it was. Her wedding dress, her wide-brimmed hat...and her singed veil, are all preserved as her lasting wedding memories.
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I asked wife about what the wedding gown really means to the bride after a decade or two. With our 40th anniversary approaching, Sherry is quite qualified to respond to this...but without her wedding gown. That's right, we're in the wedding gown preservation business and we don't have her gown. That's sad, but it's a fact.
This is how she answered that question:
"The wedding dress to a bride is like the proverbial glass slipper to Cinderella. When you finally find the right wedding dress, nothing else seems to matter quite as much. It becomes easier to pick out the cake, the invitations; even the menu is easier when you've found just the right wedding dress. Like the glass slipper that fit just right, you'll know when you found just the right wedding dress.
"It doesn't matter if you're looking for second hand wedding gowns, brand new couture bridal gowns or even vintage bridal gowns passed down from family members. When the dress is right, the feeling is right...wherever you get it.
"Looking for wedding dresses can be like finding the right man. There's one out there for every woman...but sometimes you have to really search and try on a bunch of them! But be careful. If you really like one and you put it back on the rack for others to try on while you're still looking, it might not be there when go back. You'll know when you've found the right wedding dress...and the right man.
"Your wedding gown will absorb your wedding memories like a sponge. Years from now, when you hold your gown again, these memories will come flooding back. It's like a line from a John Denver song I remember...‘It will fill up your senses, like a night in the forest.'
"That's the meaning, the emotion of a wedding dress to me. Maybe it's the months of planning for your wedding day, your relationship with your Maid of Honor, the emotions on the trip home after the honeymoon and much more. From the broken beading on the wedding dress, to the grass stains from the outdoor reception, these memories never fade as long as you have that wedding dress. After your wedding dress is cleaned, repaired and preserved, the details of the day remain in your mind when you revisit your gown...like a night in the forest.
"And that's why we're in the business of preserving wedding memories through wedding dress cleaning and preservation in Birmingham, Alabama."
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Here's my Top 10 list on why you shouldn't spend any time or money on bridal gown care, including bridal gown cleaning and preservation.
10. Your gown is so UGLY that nobody would ever want to wear that wedding dress again...and it's so ugly that you don't ever want to see it again after your wedding.
9. You just plan on hanging your wedding dress in your closet and since you have plenty of closet space you can leave it there for the next 20 years. After all, you have no use for the half of the closet your wedding gown takes up anyway. A cleaned and preserved wedding dress placed in an archival-quality treasure chest only takes up the space of a medium-sized suit case. What will you do with all of that extra space then?
8. You don't plan on having children so no one will ever want to wear your wedding dress again, including your sister, your best friend, your aunt, a neighbor, your mother (well, it could happen!), a cousin, a niece, a daughter of your best friend...or someone who just can't afford to buy her own wedding dress!
7. You don't plan on selling your wedding gown, so it can just hang in the closet, stains and all, with the seams stretching. Who knows...over time you might have a beautiful, multi-colored wedding dress!
6. PETA loves you. You are kind to all sorts of critters. Moths and their larvae love to munch on traces of food. They just love wedding cake so leave some on your wedding dress and don't get your wedding dress cleaned and preserved. The critters will love your for it. This might even add some decorative holes to your wedding dress so there is really no reason to clean and preserve your wedding dress.
5. Since nobody sweats in Birmingham, Vestavia Hills, Chelsea, Hoover, Sylacauga, Homewood, Mountain Brook (I guess just about anywhere in Alabama)...especially in the summer, there is no need to clean your wedding dress.
4. You can save a couple of hundred bucks and invest it in the stock market rather than invest in a wedding gown cleaning. Think how much money you will have in 20 years. Nobody loses in the stock market!
3. You won't need to get your wedding dress cleaned since most brides in Alabama don't use makeup. Since you don't have to worry about makeup stains getting on your wedding gown, you just won't need to get it cleaned.
2. Because every bride-to-be who tried on that second hand wedding dress you bought at the consignment shop was clean and had washed her hands before she tried on the gown, you really don't need to clean the wedding dress before your wedding.
AND THE TOP REASON TO NOT CLEAN AND PRESERVE YOUR WEDDING DRESS IS...
1. You don't want to keep your wedding memories fresh and alive...for ten years, 20 years or even 40 years (that's where my wife, Sherry, and I will be on June 27 this year)...don't even consider finding a certified wedding gown specialist and getting your wedding dress cleaned and preserved. After all, who cares???
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Mom's Wedding Dress
I talked recently with a Bride-To-Be from Vestavia Hills, Alabama. She was asking about our ability to restore the original color to her Mother's wedding dress and wanted to know about our skills in making some changes to better fit her style and personality. The gown had yellowed over the thirty-four years it had been hanging in Mom's closet but I felt reasonably sure we could return the color to near its original color. And with an effective wedding dress cleaning, her Mom's dress should be in good shape. The alterations she had in mind required dress-maker skills...a skill level we regularly provide. Mom's wedding dress was a classic style which helps when restyling an older wedding gown. But sometimes an older gown has a personality different from what the Bride wants. My suggestion was to not try and make the "old gown" into a "new gown" by making extensive stylistic alterations. If you like the basic look of the dress, and the dress will fit, even with required alterations, you have a great candidate for your wedding dress. And you can save a good bit of money in the process.
We cleaned and restored the gown using a wet cleaning technique and a special bleaching process. She changed the straps, added some lace and a bustle but she didn't try wholesale changes in the style. She respected the personality of this vintage wedding gown and ended up with a beautiful gown that both she and her Mother loved.
Trouble Areas On Previously Worn Wedding Dresses
With many second generation gowns or previously worn wedding dresses, there are often trouble areas if the gown has not been properly preserved or stored. A skilled wedding gown specialist can often find ways to handle these trouble areas without making wholesale changes. Some lace can help cover discoloration in local areas. And a creative dress maker can suggest other ways to hide many faults in a second generation wedding dress.
These same concepts can be applied as well to second hand wedding dresses, including consignment wedding dresses. I suggest that you always respect the gown and don't try to do more with the gown than its personality can handle.
Don't Forget...
My final suggestion is to clean and preserve your gown immediately after your wedding. Meet with your wedding gown cleaning specialist before your wedding. Get someone to deliver your wedding dress to your selected specialist while you're honeymooning. Some specialists will even pick up your gown for you after your wedding. Just ask your wedding gown specialist! But get your gown in to a certified wedding gown specialist for a proper cleaning and preservation...because you never know who will wear your dress next.
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